Why is it called “consensual play rape"? Just so everyone knows this isn’t and can’t be the real thing. Both of us must agree about what's to happen at least in general terms, and it must be done privately and safely. That said, I’ll work hard to make sure it feels as much like the real thing as possible. It might include mild choking and brief breath control to help elevate your sense of panic. You will be violated as swiftly and brutally as I can manage within the bounds of safety.